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Behind the Project
The vast majority of us are not thinking deeply about gender in our society and are skimming the surface about such topics. How often does the average cisgender person think about their gender identity on any given day Once...twice... if at all? Do cisgender people know what cisgender means? And how often are non-binary and trans people faced with thoughts and questions regarding gender? The last answer is simple—every single day. Gender surrounds us. The pronouns we use to refer to one another, our mannerisms and behaviour, trucks for boys and dolls for girls. Shopping malls insist on separating their clothing stores into ‘mens’ and ‘womens’ sections, and we base our purchase decisions on these two separate categories that have been divided and pre-selected for us. Take one single glance down the shampoo and self-care aisles and the gendered division is there waiting to smack you in the face with the pinks and lavender purples versus the black, greys, and blues. The city is jam-packed with public washrooms asking us to choose between the triangle-skirt and pant-wearing symbols labelled on door entrances. Surely, implementing universal single washrooms would solve a hell of a lot of issues for people that are either for or against allowing non-binary and trans people to use public washrooms and the safety thereof, not to mention the benefits for families with children and people with disabilities, all while increasing privacy for all—but, we will save that loaded debate for another time and space. |
The Question
How could I bring transparency to these separations that are so prevalent in our lives yet so over-looked to the point of being second nature to us; a separation we are so used to that we barely ever notice. Which comes the even harder task of bringing transparency to the non-binary and trans community in a way people will connect with. It’s obvious that we don’t think twice about these subjects unless it directly affects our own lives or the lives of loved ones in some way. That is not to say that we are negative or ignorant, but we empathize and connect most oftenly with people that are closest to us, people that we understand, or share similar opinions and interests with. We embrace the familiar, and we fear the things that we don’t understand.
How could I bring transparency to these separations that are so prevalent in our lives yet so over-looked to the point of being second nature to us; a separation we are so used to that we barely ever notice. Which comes the even harder task of bringing transparency to the non-binary and trans community in a way people will connect with. It’s obvious that we don’t think twice about these subjects unless it directly affects our own lives or the lives of loved ones in some way. That is not to say that we are negative or ignorant, but we empathize and connect most oftenly with people that are closest to us, people that we understand, or share similar opinions and interests with. We embrace the familiar, and we fear the things that we don’t understand.
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Looking Forward
It is my greatest hopes that readers will gain a new and enriched perspective regarding gender identity and its prevalence in our society, and that it will encourage being mindful of the everyday personal struggles and triumphs of those who often go through great lengths to simply be themselves. I hope to relate with queer people that may be experiencing similar situations or struggles and I want them to know that as unique as their situation may seem, they aren’t alone in what they are experiencing. My plan for /he/she/they is to speak about gender in a transparent manner in order to bring greater visibility to the non-binary and trans queer community.
It is my greatest hopes that readers will gain a new and enriched perspective regarding gender identity and its prevalence in our society, and that it will encourage being mindful of the everyday personal struggles and triumphs of those who often go through great lengths to simply be themselves. I hope to relate with queer people that may be experiencing similar situations or struggles and I want them to know that as unique as their situation may seem, they aren’t alone in what they are experiencing. My plan for /he/she/they is to speak about gender in a transparent manner in order to bring greater visibility to the non-binary and trans queer community.